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“I thought I would be falling in love with sleep again, but I’ve actually fallen in love with life again”

The Sleep Ritual Protocol July '25 Cohorts Begin 7/1 - 
Enrollment Opens June 1st

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Welcome to The Art of Falling Asleep Online Community

(Hosted on Circle.so)

Pay once and gain lifetime access to the TAoFA journey

TAoFA is different than any other sleep model you have come across. It presents you with entirely new but biologically accurate perspectives, making the process very intuitive, simple, and effective,

when properly understood.

But the shifts don't end with sleep, which is a 24-hour process. TAoFA presents you with an extremely simple template for how to live your whole life in a connected, aligned and restorative way. 

Who Is This For?

 

This community is for someone who:

 

  • Is open to viewing their struggle with insomnia as a gift, here to propel them into a new frequency of living...

  • Knows there's so much more to sleep than meets the eye and is ready to discover what that is...

  • Ready to develop a conscious relationship with their body as a means of sleeping better...​​

  • Intuitively understands something significant is missing in the traditional approach to sleep...

  • Is ready to do less in order to sleep better...

  • Has been searching for a spiritual, grounded approach to sleeping, living and following their soul aligned path...

​Welcome to TAoFA — a 24-hour transformational modality for sleeping and living in alignment with your soul’s blueprint. ​​

After years of struggling with insomnia, I discovered that sleep isn’t just something we do at night - it’s a 24-hour integration of who we really are. That realization led me to create The Art of Falling Asleep (TAoFA) - a soulful, intuitive approach that helps people reconnect with the deeper intelligence of Body, Mind, Spirit, and Soul.

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TAoFA is not another method for fixing sleep. It’s a transformative sleep model that rewrites the foundational principles behind the sleep process itself. It offers a deeper understanding of the relationship between your Mind and Body as you approach sleep - how their roles may differ from what you've been taught, and how this insight shapes the spiritual dimension of your ritual.

Our foundational principles reveals how TAoFA is a frequency-change model, not a relaxation method or a form of mind-training. This distinction is central and is the core construct TAoFA is here to offer you.

This is significant because since you are not trying to put the Mind to sleep. You will not repeat any of the strategies or techniques that you've tried before. Instead, you become a sleep facilitator on behalf of you Body. You will step into the practice of aligning consciousness between your Mind and your Body, one of inner alchemy. This is what creates frequency change. This is the space I am holding for you to gently begin sleeping better in. You will learn how to organize energy by communicating trust, safety, and permission through a simple but powerful ritual, changing energetic frequencies and harmonizing with your authentic-self as a result. 

- Derek Lacey, TAoFA Founder

The Problem TAoFA addresses:

 

Modern life has disrupted the natural codes of sleep. People arrive at bedtime sleepy but energetically disorganized, carrying a tension that once belonged to another time of day, resulting in “minimal survival sleep.” Consequently, they either struggle to fall asleep or fall asleep quickly - only to wake up after just a few hours and find it difficult to return to sleep. 

The Solution TAoFA provides:

TAoFA guides you to resolve that tension before bed in order to experience frequency change - the result of your Body becoming organized, made to feel safe, and energetically available to sleep. This process “remembers” a lost frequency of sleep that not only contains more meaningful sleep, but invites an experience that continues into your day - one of deeper alignment, clarity, and soul-led purpose. This experience of day enhances both spiritual connection and the body’s natural process for making  energy (ATP), resulting in an individualized chemical byproduct that ensures true, deep sleep.

What TAoFA Community Offers

When you join TAoFA, you’ll gain lifetime access to:​​

  • The Sleep Ritual — a core practice for returning your Body, Mind, and Soul to coherence with Source & Sleep

    • Be a part of an 11-week group facilitation protocol

    • Gain access to other group's replays as the protocol continues to evolve

    • Gain access to online video course (sold separately for $400)

    • Access to Ebook course (sold separately for $150)

  • Other relevant teachings, workshops, and future courses covering a variety of other topics​​​

  • Live, monthly group sleep ritual facilitations 

  • Live Community Coaching and Q&As with Derek Lacey, creator of TAoFA

  • Members of the community will get special access and discounts to our in person Sleep Retreats

  • Plus much more to come as the community grows...

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Testimonials

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My experience with The Art of Falling Asleep was life changing and very likely lifesaving. After a series of traumatic events over a very short period of time in 2023 I was a broken, incoherent shell of a human being. I slept two to four hours a night, ate very little, and couldn’t put two thoughts together.

Derek, with great patience, helped me put myself back together in a new and far more glorious incarnation, and along the way I found myself led to a spiritual path that will sustain me for the rest of this life.

I cannot fully articulate all the magic within myself The Art of Falling Asleep has allowed me to access, the alchemy we all carry within us to change our trajectory and reach higher than we’d ever dreamed. But if you struggle with sleep and are reading these words, you have found the space you’ve been searching for, and I encourage you to come home to yourself.

- Phyllis K

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TAoFA Guiding Principles

Every functional system hinges on strong, deeply vetted principles. From here, alignment is foundational and the simplest practices can now have the greatest impact. 

 

The principles discussed below serve to honor sleep in the most biologically and spiritually harmonious way, so that The Sleep Ritual can be effective and energetically efficient. 

We invite you to explore these conversations and reflect on this approach to sleep. If it feels aligned - both in heart and mind - it’s a beautiful sign you’re in the right place. 

Principle #1
- The body sleeps, not the mind -
Principle #3
- Everything you need is already inside of you. -
Principle #2
- The touchstones in the ritual are as important as sleep -

Principle #4
- The purpose of life is to sleep -

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